WHAT IF I SAY NO?

What if I say no? Will you judge?
Now a days people are becoming more and more judgemental. They give their bias opinion when someone says no to them. They give their non rational logic and reasoning.
But why, why is it necessary. Why can't they agree to disagree? Why is there any need to explain , why we do what we do?

" When you judge another, you don't define them, you define yourself."- Wayne Dyer.

It's healthy to give advice to someone that can be helpful but it is up to them if they follow or not. But being persistent about it ruins your goodwill. There may have been a time when your opinion provided them strength when they needed it most but time changes so does situation. If someone needs your help they will ask for it you don't need to push it. 

"Stubborn and ardent clinging to ones's opinion is the best proof of stupidity." - Michel de Montaigne.

So if someone gives you attention but doesn't follow your advice, instead of judging them be there and be supportive of the choices they make. Because some day they might need you but after seeing you being all negative, they won't even bother to ask. And you might loose someone who use to hold their horses for you in life's race. 

                                                                          - KAJAL PANWAR