Though delusional, it was worth trying for... that's what I use to think. But being known to the unknown nature of man would flood me with such sorrow, never would have imagined. Though wild it was the face you showed me while shoving me off from your heart but I am no less than a lioness, who would allow such pathetic wildness to wither away my charm.
Once people fall in love they tend to forget what is wrong and what is right. They base there judgments on pure affection and they overlook wrongs and that is how they end up being hurt. Love is a wonderful feeling but only when both sides are enjoying at same level, if one of them is compromising to the limit where they have to hide the facts and change their ideals then you are seriously going into the wrong lane. That is not love its being blind, blind to the fact that you are suffering, blind to the fact that you are ignoring everything that is wrong and blind to the very existence of his or her is making you change in a ways that you don't want to. Love is pure and honest but it never demands sacrifices or any compromises at least not at the expense of your happiness. Love makes you happy and yes you may get hurt some times but it doesn't involve hiding your doubts or your wishes and dreams. Love is suppose to be the feeling of bliss when meet that person not the person he or she demands you to be, it should be with what real you is not what he or she wants to make you.
Small changes can be dealt with but changes which will change your entire personality that is BIG NO. Always do what makes you happy whether its being in love or not. People don't die after break ups so always make sure you love the right person or you move on from the wrong one. Love doesn't make go suicidal it makes you blossom. So if you find some one worth compromising for than love that person with whole heart otherwise.. Suck it up! He or she won't be coming to your wedding.
Memories of past may burden me someday, but for me a blissful tomorrow is always the Sun.
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